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我从林黛玉到薛宝钗的角色转换

2007-11-24 17:38:58| 分类：生活随笔 | 标签： |举报 |字号大中小订阅

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少年时代看《红楼梦》，眼中只有林黛玉，内心深处也把自己幻化成林妹妹，想象有如她一般的才貌双全，玲珑清高，盼望如她一样有一个痴心的宝哥哥鞍前马后地陪着小心，曲意奉承，即使表现得那么小心眼和蛮不讲理。

我从林黛玉到薛宝钗的角色转换(音画) - 水沐莲清 - 水沐莲清

如今结了婚，成了母亲，再回头看《红楼梦》，却震惊地发现现实的我，已经学会了如宝姐姐般的圆滑处世，会了察言观色，会了忍辱负重，也会了善解人意、大度待人，笑脸迎合，当然更会了将委屈深埋于心……原来人生会在岁月的历练中，青涩最终被成熟代替，任性最终变成贤惠沉稳！

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